tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-82074555521392843422024-03-22T10:13:53.833+08:00Faith, Hope and JoyWe are a family of five. Mum, Dad and three beautiful little girls, two of whom have diastrophic dysplasia, a rare form of dwarfism. This blog was started during my pregnancy with my second daughter and mainly talks about the ways in which dwarfism affects our lives. Nicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10147429806244730166noreply@blogger.comBlogger287125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8207455552139284342.post-22539274434479080542016-04-27T10:43:00.000+08:002016-04-27T10:43:17.152+08:00More letter writtingOver the past month, we have found that we are in a really difficult position with our spinal team. We were referred to the most experienced spinal surgeon at The Children's Hospital at Westmead, but he currently cannot perform surgery because he lacks adequate spinal monitoring for the surgeries. We are trying to work through the various possibilities to find an acceptable solution. Hopefully we have enough time and enough options that Madeline's care is not seriously compromised. Our surgeon encouraged us to write some letters to the Minister for Health, as well as to our representatives, so I sent off the following letter along with a photo of Madeline.<br />
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Dear Minister,</div>
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I am the mother of three daughters, two of whom have
diastrophic dysplasia, a rare and disabling form of dwarfism. My daughters were
all born in Hong Kong but are Australian by descent. In December 2014, we moved
back to Sydney from Hong Kong and they are currently treated at The Children's
Hospital at Westmead (CHW). </div>
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Many people with diastrophic dysplasia are affected by
severe kyphoscoliosis (curvature of the spine) and will require surgery at some
stage in their childhood. My daughter's (Madeline) kyphoscoliosis is in the
upper thoracic region (between her shoulders) and I've been told it will be an
extremely complex surgery requiring the most highly skilled surgeons available.
We were referred to Dr Andrew Cree and have been told by other members of the
spinal orthopedic team that no other surgeon at CHW has the expertise that we
need, and that we would be compromising my daughters' care to see a less
experienced surgeon.</div>
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When we recently met with Dr Cree, he told me that he is unable
continue with my daughters' cases as he currently does not have the requisite
staff to provide adequate spinal monitoring during surgery. The doctor who was
previously doing the spinal monitoring has resigned so Dr Cree is currently
using a consultant. However, this consultant is not experienced enough to
handle the complexity of my daughter's case without the very real possibility
of causing a spinal cord injury and potentially resulting in permanent
paralysis for my daughter. It will take Dr Cree some time to find a suitable
replacement and Madeline's surgery possibly cannot wait that long.</div>
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Dr Cree has told me that one alternative would be
transferring to another doctor at CHW - however, I have previously been told
that they do not have the expertise we require, and so I am hesitant to do so.
Other alternatives may be seeking treatment in Melbourne, or with our original
doctors in Hong Kong - however these are costly and may require significant
periods of time away from home and out of school. I asked about the possibility
of having the surgery in a private hospital and while this would have more
optimal spinal monitoring, Madeline is not yet 10 years old or 30kg, which is a
prerequisite for intensive care in the private hospital. I have advised Dr Cree
that my preference (and what I believe would be in the best interest of
Madeline) is if we remain with him and find some way that he is able to perform
the surgery in Westmead <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">with</i> adequate
spinal monitoring.</div>
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I find it appalling that the most experienced spinal surgeon
at one of the most highly respected children's hospitals in Australia would
find himself in this predicament. I do not understand all of the bureaucratic
policies regarding consultants, but presumably there are other experienced
spinal monitoring doctors available, if transferring to another doctor at CHW
would solve the problem. Also presumably there are other experienced spinal
monitoring doctors available in the private sector, if a private hospital would
have been an option if it were not for the issues with intensive care. I urge
you to work on a resolution to this issue as soon as possible so that Dr Cree
is able to perform the kind of complex spinal surgeries that children like
Madeline need in the near future.</div>
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For Madeline, this is an urgent matter. Delaying treatment
will result in further deformity of her spine placing pressure on her heart and
lungs. Without treatment, a spinal cord injury is highly likely, greatly increasing
the degree of Madeline’s disability. </div>
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Please do not hesitate to contact me to discuss these issues
further,</div>
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Yours sincerely,</div>
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Nicole</div>
Nicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10147429806244730166noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8207455552139284342.post-14606094503183867402016-02-16T08:40:00.001+08:002016-02-16T08:40:52.710+08:00Getting Political part 2Within a few days of <a href="http://madeline-hope.blogspot.com.au/2016/01/getting-political.html">writing my letter</a> to six politicians, I had some kind of response from three of them. My state MP was the first to respond via email, saying that he had written directly to the NSW Minister for Health, The Hon Jillian Skinner MP, to pass along my concerns. I had already written directly to her as well but I was grateful for the support. Next, I received a letter from my federal MP acknowledging my concerns and welcoming us to meet him to discuss them further. Third, I received a phone call from EnableNSW (the organisation that funds wheelchairs) stating that due to my letter to Ms Skinner, our case would be reviewed early and the funds for Madeline's wheelchair had been released. A week later, I received a letter stating that Madeline's wheelchair had been ordered. Apart from this, I did not have any of my questions or concerns addressed. I decided while I was on a roll, I would write again directly to Ms Skinner to ask for a response to my questions and concerns. Here is my letter:<br />
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Dear Minister,</div>
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I wrote to you two and a half weeks ago concerning my
daughters, Madeline and Briella, who are both affected by diastrophic
dysplasia, a debilitating form of dwarfism that leads to mobility impairments.
At the time, Madeline looked as though she would be entering kindergarten with
no mobility device of her own after months of trials, applications and waiting
for funding. Shortly after I wrote to you, I had a call from EnableNSW saying
that our wheelchair application had been reviewed early and the funds were now
available for Madeline’s wheelchair. Yesterday, I received a letter from Enable
NSW saying that the wheelchair has now been ordered. Madeline should have her
own wheelchair within weeks.</div>
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While I am ecstatic with this result for Madeline, my
original questions in my letter to you have not been addressed. Namely, why is
mobility currently overlooked in funding for children with disabilities? Why is
it acceptable for a child to need to wait a year or longer for a device that
will increase his or her independence? Madeline has certainly benefited from
the letter I wrote to you, but what of children who do not have someone to
speak on their behalf? </div>
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Ultimately, the state will pay for citizens with
disabilities – either in disability pensions, or in early intervention.
Withholding independence from children will lead to adults who are less
independent and therefore more dependent on the state. From an economic point
of view, it makes more sense to invest in early intervention in order to enable
children with disabilities to grow up to be independent adults who contribute
to society and have the capacity to support themselves financially, not relying
on disability pensions. </div>
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I would be eager to discuss these issues with you in more
detail. </div>
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Yours faithfully,</div>
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Nicole </div>
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Today, I received a disappointing response back. </div>
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqBTfmqboztGTw-kW7u3Ov4bQ8FssJqNbd4jS53_arJiCzGi5xHE9pCj5dS790azxM61ZvRwc1nuRWUM3XxQeIBgd6CUTKi2XCpmQglrwgQnLkwffhRso7bGaKg4ebl36JZ9H0kS4PkH8/s1600/Scan_20160216_112631.jpg" imageanchor="1"><img border="0" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqBTfmqboztGTw-kW7u3Ov4bQ8FssJqNbd4jS53_arJiCzGi5xHE9pCj5dS790azxM61ZvRwc1nuRWUM3XxQeIBgd6CUTKi2XCpmQglrwgQnLkwffhRso7bGaKg4ebl36JZ9H0kS4PkH8/s640/Scan_20160216_112631.jpg" width="452" /></a> </div>
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Basically she's saying:</div>
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- she regrets any distresses and inconveniences that I have had as a result of raising a child with a disability</div>
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- Madeline's wheelchair is ordered</div>
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- if I have any other concerns, please talk to someone else. </div>
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Note, she still did not address a single one of my questions - and I highly doubt that the person she referred me to would be able to address these questions either (but maybe I should try?) </div>
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So where to from here? I have a meeting with my federal MP on Friday and we will see how that goes. Some people who I have talked to have commented that often the voice of one individual is not enough to make change - they recommend that I find and join up with an organisation who has a similar passion for mobility and join my voice to theirs so that together our voice will be louder. I would be interested if anyone has any suggestions or leads as to what to do next. This is a time of change with an election looming, and NDIS starting to be implemented more widely around Australia so if there is ever a time to hope to make a difference, it might as well be now. </div>
Nicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10147429806244730166noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8207455552139284342.post-20053719031645420382016-01-15T13:17:00.000+08:002016-01-15T13:18:23.686+08:00Getting PoliticalIt has been a while since I wrote here. I mostly share snippets of our lives on my <a href="https://www.facebook.com/faithhopejoydd">Facebook page</a> these days. I wanted to share something that is too long for Facebook though.<br />
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Since moving back to Australia, I have been slowly navigating the medical system here. Now Australia is a country of high tax and high social welfare but I have noticed discrepancies within that social welfare system that was worth writing to a few politicians about. So I sat down and blurted it all out and sent it off to six different politicians, including state and federal ministers of health, ministers of disability/social services as well as my own electoral representatives. Since it's the longest thing I've written for quite a while, I might as well share it on here as well.<br />
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Dear Minister,</div>
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Please allow me to introduce myself. My name is Nicole and I am the mother of three daughters; Lana (7), Madeline (5) and Briella (2).
My husband and I were living in Hong Kong when they were born and we all are
Australian citizens (I was born here, my husband was naturalised in 1988 and my
daughters are citizens by descent). My younger two daughters, Madeline and
Briella, are both affected by a rare and debilitating form of dwarfism called
diastrophic dysplasia. </div>
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Diastrophic dysplasia significantly affects a person’s mobility,
although there are other issues associated with this condition. Many people
with this condition also have hearing loss (of my children, Madeline’s hearing
is unaffected; however, Briella has mild to moderate hearing loss). Despite
this, this condition is a physical (rather than mental or cognitive) disability,
and people with diastrophic dysplasia have every potential to develop into
contributing members of society – provided that they are born into a society
which both accepts them and accommodates for their differences.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>For example, one man with diastrophic
dysplasia in Brazil is a well-recognised geneticist. A Sydney man with this
condition was a lawyer. It is my hope and goal that my daughters will grow up
to similarly contribute to society. </div>
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Part of the reason for our move back to Australia in
December 2014 was the recognition that Australia would be a society in which my
daughters would be able to develop best into independent adults. In Hong Kong,
we paid relatively less tax but there is minimal social welfare for those who
need it. By contrast, in Australia, our tax is much higher but the expectation
is that those who need assistance should be able to access funds for their
needs. Disability is something which can affect any person or any family at any
time and rightly should be funded by taxpayers’ money. </div>
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Upon moving back, I was overwhelmed at the level of support
here compared to Hong Kong in many areas. In particular, one area of which I
would speak very highly of is the support provided for children with hearing impairments.
Briella was diagnosed with mild to moderate hearing loss and was provided with
a $3,000 hearing aid within two weeks. In addition, we attend the Royal
Institute for Deaf and Blind Children (RIDBC) weekly for individual sessions to
assist her to catch up with her language development which was delayed both due
to the hearing loss and also due to her cleft palate. She also attends a group
session at RIDBC every fortnight where she can interact with other children her
age with hearing impairments. For all of this support, we pay virtually nothing
at all (all we do pay is a minimal fee to Australian Hearing, which covers all
maintenance of and batteries for the hearing aid). If Briella ever damages or
loses her hearing aid, it will be replaced at no cost to us. </div>
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There is one area of need, however, which I feel is
remarkably lacking in support – and that is mobility. Madeline can walk
independently; however her legs are extremely short and her joints are
restricted, so because of this she is mobility-impaired. Within a room or a
house, she is mobile without any assistance; however over a larger area (for
example, a trip to the grocery store, or an hour at the mall), she needs the aid
of a walking frame so that she can walk independently. The walking frame helps
her with stability (she is prone to falls) and it also improves her speed and
endurance since she can bear weight on it with her upper body as well. However,
even with the aid of a walking frame, she does not have the stamina for a full
day on her feet and as such, she also needs a wheelchair for those longer days
out (for example, a trip to the zoo). </div>
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When we moved back to Australia, we attempted to begin the
process early (in February 2015) to ensure that she would have a device when
she enters kindergarten (which would be at the end of this month). It took
several months to trial several different wheelchairs and choose which one best
fit her needs. We finally submitted the application to EnableNSW in August 2015
(six months after we first began the process), and it was approved quickly, but
we were advised that it takes several months for funds to be available for this
and that we should not expect to have the wheelchair for about a year. </div>
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Given that Madeline needs both a walking frame and a
wheelchair, in April 2015 we separately also began the process to get a walking
frame for Madeline, and we were told to hire one from the hospital while we
were waiting. The walking frame that we have hired is not ideal for Madeline
but it is better than nothing. However, by this time, since we had already
applied for Madeline’s wheelchair with EnableNSW, we were advised that for her
walking frame, our only options were to submit applications for funding with
various charities (such as Variety) or to pay for the walking frame ourselves.
We are still waiting to hear if our application for funding with Variety is successful
or not, but it is looking unlikely that Madeline will have any mobility device
of her own when she enters kindergarten at the end of this month. </div>
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Comparing the funding available between mobility impairments
and hearing impairments, I have to ask why is there no better funding available
for children with mobility impairments? Why are children with mobility
impairments forced to wait for a year or longer for a device that will increase
their independence? Shouldn’t a child in this country be able to enter
kindergarten and be able to independently navigate their school campus and
field trips? </div>
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I suggest that investing in devices for children with
mobility impairments is a worthwhile investment. For one, walking frames are
significantly cheaper than hearing aids. They are also less likely to be lost
or damaged by young children (Briella has already damaged her hearing aid by
putting it in her mouth). The amount of independence that they can give to a
child is life-changing for them. Mobility is just as important to a child as
hearing is, as without mobility a child cannot independently participate with
his or her peers at an age-appropriate level. Why is there not better funding
for such children? </div>
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Briella is not yet walking independently but at age two, she
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took her first steps. (Sadly, no professional ever suggested to me that it may
be beneficial for her to trial a walking frame.) Since she began using her
sister’s walking frame, she has grown in both strength and independence. She
now will ask for the “walker” and use it to navigate our house. It also allows
for her to be in the age-appropriate position - standing upright on her feet.
Prior to this hostile takeover, she could not stand independently at all. But
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My children have the benefit of well-educated parents who
push their doctors and therapists for these devices which increase their
independence, but what happens to children who don’t have that? They end up
being far more disabled than they ever needed to be. They are disabled by a
lack of funding and by a system which does not seek to give children the
mobility aids that they need. And in turn, these children are more likely to
have unequal access to education and less likely to have high career
aspirations. This may result in them ending up relying on government pensions
for life. Giving children independence at a young age can only benefit them
throughout their entire life. I hope that my children succeed at schooling and
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I write this to you two weeks before Madeline is due to
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appropriate walking frame or wheelchair and as a result, will find it difficult
to navigate her school campus. She will not be able to fully participate in
field trips or other class events because mobility is not worth funding and it
is considered acceptable for a child to wait a year for independence. I find
this extremely disappointing and unacceptable and would love to have the
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Life in Australia is hectic! We have been back for nearly 3 months, have been in our own place for around 2 months, and are coming to the end of the first term of school for the year. Lots is happening medically with Maddy and Briella but yet I haven't found the time to update this blog at all! Instead, I had the brilliant(?) idea to start a blog Facebook page where I can post little snippets of things as they are happening. I think that will be easier for me to stay on top of things. I do still want to share our journey with diastrophic dysplasia but in an achievable way! So please, if you are still following this blog after my months of silence, pop over to Facebook and like us there - the link is https://www.facebook.com/faithhopejoydd</div>
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The title of this post comes from <a href="http://ciaolink.com/temple_detail/">this amazing gift </a>that some special friends got me for a farewell. This group of friends were my mothers group who I met when I was pregnant with Maddy. Some of them, I had met before that 17 week mark, before we knew there were any issues with the pregnancy, before I even started this blog. Before our lives changed. After that moment, for months I wanted nothing to do with this mothers group and their healthy babies and happy lives (particularly when I wasn't certain I would be bringing home a baby at all - and what place does a childless mother have in a mother's group?) but slowly I was able to move past that - particularly as Maddy grew and thrived and I realised that I too had a healthy baby and a happy life. </div>
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Last Friday, Briella had her cleft surgery. I was hoping that this surgery could be performed in Australia shortly after our move, but when we knew it could take several months to organise, and when our doctors here were prepared to do the surgery before our move, we decided it was in her best interests to have the surgery done sooner rather than later. Knowing this would mean one (hopefully) last hospitalisation in the public system here in Hong Kong, I was a bit apprehensive but hopefully - for some areas of Briella's care, I've found that (slow) progress has been made in the system since a few years ago. The public system one last time did not fail to disappoint us and as a result, will (actually for the first time) be receiving a formal complaint from us. This is a summary of the last week or so. </div>
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Last week on Monday, I took Briella up to the hospital for her pre-op consultation with the anesthetist. Because Briella (and Maddy) are higher risk for anesthesia, there is only one anesthetist in the whole of Hong Kong Island that they would allow to do the surgery. She is great - we've had her since Maddy was born, first met her in the NICU when Maddy was tiny. I trust her and honestly, anesthetists are in many ways the most important people in surgery when it comes to rare kids or kids with difficult airways! The only problem is that this doctor does not do outpatient clinics, so to consult with her, we need to be admitted to the hospital and wait for us to fit us in.</div>
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It was just 5pm and immediately after reading the above posts that a nurse came to talk to me. Mind you, this is after 8 hours at the hospital, in which time we saw no doctor at all. She said "I'm sorry but I'm not sure if the doctor will be coming around tonight. Would you like to take home leave and come back at 9am tomorrow?" I told her "I would NOT like to do that, I have already been here for 8 hours and have not even seen one doctor. My time is valuable as well and I cannot just give up days without even being able to see a doctor at all. I am extremely busy this week and I will need to see the doctor today." I think before, when Maddy was born, I wouldn't have been assertive enough to say that - I would just get upset and angry. Now I am more able to firmly but politely say what I need to say. After about 15 minutes, the nurse came back to me and said "Ok the doctor will come tonight, but I don't know how late it will be". Even staying until late at night seemed preferable than coming back for another full day so I was happy with that. </div>
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When I hadn't heard back yesterday (9 days before the potential surgery), I decided to email the doctor. He'd put in all the requests but hadn't heard back yet. With our move coming up quickly, so much is revolving around getting this surgery done. </div>
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As we are renting, we needed to give our landlord 2 months notice - so we already need to vacate our apartment by Christmas eve. The movers are coming on the 20th to pack up all our stuff. We still don't know if we will have Christmas in Hong Kong or Australia, as the surgeon has said we shouldn't travel for around 4 weeks after surgery. </div>
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Today the surgeon got back to me and he was able to book the surgery for the 21st, so in 8 days, Briella will be having her cleft repair. I'm not expecting it to be easy or fun - she will have some time afterwards in the PICU which is right across the hall from the NICU and that always brings up bad memories. While she is there, we will have to abide by their ridiculous visiting hours and policies. Hopefully she has no complications and is only there for a minimal amount of time. After that, she will be sent to the pediatric surgical ward for a few days. That also was quite rough with Maddy. Unlike PICU, parents are not only allowed - but they are expected to be there 24/7. Parents are the ones who will do all the care and feeding for their child. That would be fine if parents were catered for, but they are not. There is minimal space and only a plastic chair to sit or sleep on. No blankets or pillows. It's not easy to look after a child recovering from surgery when we are not able to look after ourselves! In addition, after the surgery, Briella will not be able to have a bottle any more. She currently almost always will fall asleep with a feed, and while she's getting better at cup feeding (we practice every day), she's not really ready to give up the bottle completely. </div>
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To be honest, I had my doubts about whether it was the right time to pursue getting a chair for Maddy, whether it would be beneficial, whether she'd be able to steer it well, whether she'd even like it. Watching her be able to drive herself around, however, all my doubts evaporated and now I am positive that having a chair would be a GREAT thing for her - it would increase her mobility exponentially - and she definitely is ready for it.</div>
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It can be a complicated thing to move with kids with special needs. Moving overseas is even more complicated as you change from one medical system to another. Particularly if the country you are moving to has a public health system, moving means going on another often long waiting list. Coordinating things to attempt to have a smooth transition with good continuity of care has been complicated, but I feel we are off to a good start! </div>
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When we were deciding to move, one of the first things I knew I had to do was to contact our new hospital in Sydney and attempt to open a file for them. I was very fortunate to be able to get both girls in to the Connective Tissue Dysplasia clinic at Westmead Children's Hospital when we were back in July (given we had to go as "private patients" and pay out of pocket). Now, Hong Kong doesn't have a Connective Tissue or Skeletal Dysplasia clinic, but Westmead does. Run by clinical geneticists, these doctors can help to coordinate and oversee the "big picture" medical care for our kids with dwarfism and other skeletal or connective tissue disorders. This is the department that <a href="http://madeline-hope.blogspot.hk/2010/12/sillence-in-hospital.html">Prof Sillence</a> was the head of when he graciously visited Maddy in the NICU when she was only four months old. He has since retired and a new doctor has taken over.</div>
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One of the things we have had to decide is what we can do in Hong Kong before we go and what we should do in Australia after we get there. On our horizon is Briella's cleft repair, Maddy's spine, potentially more work on Briella's feet - as well as wheelchair assessments for Maddy. I tried to get the kids into see orthopedic doctors at Westmead before our move, as well as getting Briella in to the cleft clinic as well, but with our limited dates and the hospital's waiting lists, we were unable to do so. We do have orthopedic appointments, as well as a cleft appointment for Briella, lined up already at Westmead for shortly after we arrive in Australia early next year. </div>
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We have decided to do all the orthopedic work in Australia - Maddy's spine and Briella's feet. These things are not so urgent or time sensitive and waiting would not be detrimental. While we have had a wheelchair assessment for Maddy and will be doing a "fitting" in two weeks, I don't think we will get the chair here as it is extremely expensive and has no public funding. In Australia we would be eligible for some public funding for a chair making it significantly more affordable. While I would like Maddy to have more independence in distance mobility, I don't think it is an urgent need at this stage. </div>
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We have decided to attempt to do Briella's cleft repair in Hong Kong before we leave. On one hand, I wish we could wait and do it in Australia as it would be more comfortable and supportive to have it done there. I hate the ICU here with a passion, and surgery will definitely mean at least one day, possibly longer, in the ICU. I wasn't particularly fond of the plastic chairs we were meant to sleep on in the surgical ward either (that or the floor - no blankets provided). While we could do the surgery in Australia after we move, it will take some time, possibly months, to organise. After Maddy's surgery was delayed until 22 months and seeing the effect that had on her speech development, I don't want to be delaying surgery for no good medical reason, just because we might all be more comfortable at Westmead. </div>
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Working towards Briella's surgery, we have in the past two weeks had another overnight oxygen monitoring test (which Briella actually slept for this time!) and an MRI of Briella's cervical spine. Both of these tests are meant to show her suitability for general anesthesia. I'm pretty sure she did fine in the oxygen monitoring, and I think the MRI should have been clear but we don't know the results yet. We will see the cleft clinic again on October 24 (Lana's 6th birthday) and hopefully will get a surgery date then.</div>
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It is currently hard to plan our exact "moving date" without knowing the surgery date as the surgeons have said they wouldn't recommend flying within about 4 weeks of surgery (usually it is safe earlier than that, but they are being a bit more cautious given Briella's small airways). We would like to move before Christmas, possibly around Dec 22-23, but can only do that if we have a surgery date which is in November. If the surgery is scheduled in December we may need to delay our move until January instead. We can't delay too long, however, as school starts in Australia at the end of January and we'll need to find somewhere to live before then! </div>
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Please pray for us during this time! The good and bad thing about having a blog is that I've been able to go back and read about our experience with Maddy which held soooooo much frustration (if you are interested, her repair was in May '12). I'm at least prepared for it and more knowledgeable this time around - but I've learned that is both a blessing and a curse. As with all surgeries, if Briella has a cold at the last minute, the surgery will be cancelled and then we may need to do it in Australia instead. That wouldn't be so bad - but I'd rather it was done sooner than later... particularly if later meant months later!</div>
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I have been debating whether or not to write this down, whether it warrants a formal complaint to the hospital, or whether I should just take a deep breath and move on. I'm going to write it down because it is part of our story, and it has been a source of much dissatisfaction for me in relation to the medical care that Maddy is getting here in Hong Kong.</div>
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We have been seeing the Spinal orthopedic team here in Hong Kong for several years, since Maddy first developed scoliosis. It has been my primary medical concern and was one of the main reasons why last year, we wanted to see <a href="http://madeline-hope.blogspot.hk/2013/08/a-visit-with-dr-mackenzie.html">Dr William Mackenzie</a> in the US for his opinion on how to manage Maddy's scoliosis. Up until our trip to see Dr Mackenzie, I'd had no major complaint with the spinal team here. They were monitoring her, and when I mentioned consulting with Dr Mackenzie, they seemed open to doing so. </div>
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Now due to the early onset of Maddy's scoliosis as well as the location and severity, we almost always see one of the top spinal doctors. These guys are very good doctors - they are professors and are the current and previous heads of the orthopedic department at the largest hospital here in Hong Kong. They are experts in congenital scoliosis and have pioneered some new technologies for treating such conditions. That said, they previously have not treated any patients with diastrophic dysplasia as Maddy is the first case diagnosed in Hong Kong. In my mind, if we were able to get the opinions of two teams, one of whom was a scoliosis specialist and the other who was an expert in diastrophic dysplasia, we would be giving Maddy the best medical care that she could get.</div>
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As soon as we came back from the states, however, it was obvious that the spinal team here had absolutely no interest in conversing with Dr Mackenzie on any level. They didn't agree with his opinion, and did not plan on following his recommendations for bracing Maddy's spine. One of their senior doctors told me "There is no point in talking to him as we are not going to change our opinions anyway."</div>
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In <a href="http://madeline-hope.blogspot.hk/2013/10/maddys-orthopedic-update.html">this post</a>, I spoke about my discomfort at being stuck between two opinions where our doctors were refusing to communicate with Dr Mackenzie. I had to learn, however, the uncomfortable truth that ultimately, even though we consulted with Dr Mackenzie (and paid a ridiculous amount of money to do so, I might add!), he was not our doctor and we had no choice but to follow the treatment path recommended by our Hong Kong doctors. </div>
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On our last appointment with them, I asked after that - did they consult with him? What did Dr M say? Did they agree/disagree? I was floored when the doctor told me they hadn't contacted him after all. "We are worldwide experts in congenital scoliosis and we know all the other experts in congenital scoliosis. I haven't even heard of this Dr Mackenzie so why should we consult with him?" I was very upset and told him "You may be experts in congenital scoliosis, but you certainly are NOT experts in diastrophic dysplasia - and Dr M is. He sees hundreds of patients with this condition and you have seen only one. He has done this surgery on many of these patients, and you have done it on none."</div>
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It is a very hard place to be in when you have no choices - and I am thankful that we are leaving Hong Kong and so I can say goodbye to this arrogant team of doctors who think they are too "expert" to consult with doctors who may be experts in other areas. It is hard to say what would have been if we had've been able to follow Dr Mackenzie's advice of bracing. It certainly wouldn't have corrected her scoliosis, but it might have slowed the progression or helped with her back pain. Regardless, we are where were are and we have to make the best choices that we can with the options available to us right now. </div>
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Nicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10147429806244730166noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8207455552139284342.post-49555225001012424022014-09-13T10:30:00.000+08:002014-09-13T10:30:03.360+08:00Moving<div style="text-align: justify;">
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When we first moved to Hong Kong nearly eight years ago, we planned to be here for 2-5 years. We had thought it would be good for our kids to be born here as they would be eligible for dual citizenship if born here - but if born in Australia, they'd need to give up their Australian passports if they wanted a Hong Kong passport. There were many reasons for us moving here, including for me to learn more of the language and culture of my husband, spending time with my aging father-in-law, and to do what we could to help out in a small Chinese church which had a lot of youth but not so many married couples or families. It is a good place to work in that the pay is generally high and the tax is low - but on the other hand the cost of living is high so financially, living in Hong Kong wasn't as "beneficial" as I'd expected. </div>
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<br />Most of the time living here has been amazing - we moved here as newlyweds and now we are a family of five. Bernard and I have grown a lot - both together and as a family. Hong Kong is well and truly "home" for us. Living in Australia seems like a childhood memory at times - although we've maintained links there and visit regularly. </div>
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If you'd asked me a year ago how long we would be in Hong Kong, I would have said "indefinitely". I couldn't picture us living anywhere else EXCEPT for Hong Kong... But many things that have happened in the last year seem to have shown us that this door is closing and that it is time to move back. </div>
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First of all - schooling. A bit over a year ago, Maddy was rejected by a school which we felt would have been great for her. To be more blunt, she wasn't outright rejected - she was accepted only with the condition that we personally pay for a one on one aide for her. This would have more than doubled the school fees and was not open for discussion. There are no "antidiscrimination" laws when it comes to school enrollment and schools constantly discriminate on whatever basis they choose. In addition, the needs of students with disabilities are not subsidised by the government and so often schools charge additional fees for students with special needs. These fees are non-negotiable and as we found out, sometimes attempting to open a dialogue results in an enrollment offer being withdrawn. While this may or may not have been an issue for primary school for Maddy, I didn't want to wait to find out. </div>
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Secondly - I'm done with the medical system here and their archaic and condescending attitudes. Not all doctors are like that - but many many are and they have soured our experience. While I'm sure that our experience in Australia will not be perfect, from what I know about it so far, it will be an improvement. </div>
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But first we need to say goodbye and that is hard. At the moment, I don't feel as though we are "returning home". We are leaving our home for a new unknown. We are uprooting our children from all that they have ever known. We are closing a chapter of our lives - one which has been an amazing adventure and one that has brought so many good things into our lives. </div>
Nicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10147429806244730166noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8207455552139284342.post-58103062326871325142014-08-25T14:32:00.001+08:002014-08-25T14:32:11.874+08:00South China Morning Post<div style="text-align: justify;">
A couple of months ago, I was contacted by a reporter who wanted to write a story about our family. </div>
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I have to say I love the article and thought it was a pretty true reflection of my thoughts. That said, I would extrapolate on one main thing - I do think that Hong Kong is a hard place to deal with dwarfism and the related issues. I do think that the culture in the medical system is still very behind the rest of the world. The medical care is fantastic - but the environment and the support to families is by and large, terrible. That said, we have had some amazing, kind and helpful doctors. We have doctors (in the public system) who I email and they get back to me right away. The other week, a small cabinet fell on Maddy's hand and I freaked out thinking a bone might be broken. I emailed one of her doctors and headed up to the A&E. A&E was very fast and thankfully nothing was broken - but within an hour, this doctor had called me to follow up. </div>
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What the medical system needs here is a bit of kindness and sensitivity. They have the medical side of things under control, and it wouldn't take them THAT much effort to be a bit more kind. I bet they'd have better job satisfaction too! </div>
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Back to the article though, I still have days where I look at my kids and have an overwhelming feeling of "our family isn't complete yet" - but it would take some convincing Bernard to have any more. I must have been feeling particularly maternal the day when I said I could have 100 more ;) We will see what happens with that... </div>
Nicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10147429806244730166noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8207455552139284342.post-90852821078725017442014-08-25T13:58:00.000+08:002014-08-25T13:58:30.800+08:00It has been far too long...<div style="text-align: justify;">
I can't believe it's been three months since I last updated! We have had a lot going on - both personally and medically - and I'm not ready to share everything yet so that may be part of my silence. Much of it also is the business of life with three kids, and I'm far more relaxed about everything medically as well.</div>
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Regarding Maddy's spine, we know that she will need growing rods put in. Our team here say that it won't be done this year, so we are just continuing to monitor it. It is better to do that surgery as late as possible - but at times it is hard having it looming over our heads, not really knowing when to expect it. </div>
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Briella is growing up - she's so much like Maddy in some ways, and so different from her in others. One example: Maddy was sitting pretty well around 7 months, and while she could roll, she preferred to be upright. Briella on the other hand is CRAZY FAST at rolling but is only now starting to sit at 9 months old. I think that Briella is much more adept at using her feet as a second pair of hands - she's ALWAYS picking toys up with her feet and passing them to her hands while she's on the floor. With those rolling skills, why would she want to be stuck sitting in one place?</div>
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When Maddy was younger, the cleft surgeons delayed her surgery until she was 22 months! I've always felt that it had detrimental effects on her speech and also as a result, behaviour/frustration at her inability to communicate. I have been hoping that Briella's surgery would be much sooner than this (for average babies, the cleft is repaired around 9 months old). It looks as though she MIGHT be having her surgery in November/December at around 12 months old - which is spot on when I personally think it would be best.</div>
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We've got some tests coming up - we already know that Briella has significant hearing loss (as did Maddy). This could be purely as a result of the fluid in her ears associated with cleft palate. If it is, putting in grommets (ear tubes) during her cleft surgery will fix that completely (that was the case with Maddy). She has another hearing test on Thursday to determine if the hearing loss is just related to the fluid or not. </div>
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In early October, we have two important tests coming up. Firstly Briella has an overnight oxygen monitoring test. We had one of these in April and the results were inconclusive (mainly because she didn't really sleep very well!!). We also have an MRI of her spine to see if it is stable for surgery. If both of those tests are fine, we will begin moving towards surgery. </div>
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Nicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10147429806244730166noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8207455552139284342.post-49702046721258125822014-05-31T22:55:00.000+08:002014-05-31T22:55:33.539+08:00Maddy's CT scan<div style="text-align: justify;">
Last week, Maddy had a CT scan of her spine. The purpose was to get a very clear picture of the structure of her scoliosis in order to plan towards possible surgery. As I mentioned way back in October <a href="http://madeline-hope.blogspot.hk/2013/10/maddys-orthopedic-update.html">in this post</a>, our doctors here in Hong Kong thought that she may have a hemivertebra and if so, it could potentially be removed buying some time before we need to put in growing rods. Dr Mackenzie disagreed but ultimately, our doctors here "needed" to see for themselves. </div>
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The verdict is, there is no hemivertebra. Several of the vertebrae are "wedge shaped" but there is nothing that we can do surgically to prevent or delay the need for growing rods. Apparently this kind of scoliosis is one of the hardest to correct, and it's further complicated since Maddy is so tiny. The doctors here need to take some time to discuss an approach to the surgery, but we may be looking at needing growing rods put in within 6-12 months. That is one surgery I am NOT looking forward to! Once the rods are in, it means surgery every few months to lengthen the rods until Maddy stops growing. We have our next appointment in August (since we will be in Australia for a month, leaving in 3 weeks time) so we will find out more then.</div>
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Maddy has been complaining of back pain more frequently and seeing these images worries me! Please keep her in your thoughts and prayers, as well as the rest of our family. Going into this is quite stressful and worrying. I know ultimately she is a tough cookie and we have to do what we have to do - but I wish we didn't have to deal with this with our three year old :( </div>
Nicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10147429806244730166noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8207455552139284342.post-45833616810472777422014-05-27T14:36:00.000+08:002014-05-27T14:36:37.017+08:00Little People of Hong Kong<div style="text-align: justify;">
Shortly after the <a href="http://madeline-hope.blogspot.hk/2013/10/my-thoughts-on-tvb-pearl-documentary.html">TVB Pearl documentary</a> aired last September (the documentary is available on youtube through the linked post above), my friend Serene (the mother of Nathan in the documentary) decided to start the non profit organisation "Little People of Hong Kong". She has been working tirelessly together with some of the medical professionals who were involved in the documentary to get it off the ground and up and running. So far, there have been multiple events for parents, and she has also been involved in educational seminars for medical workers as well. </div>
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I'm so glad that Serene thought to start this organisation which brings together many families affected by dwarfism in Hong Kong. Being bilingual, she also has access to the local community which I am largely unable to communicate effectively with. I would have liked to have been involved more with LPHK but with a new baby, and now two kids with medical needs, time is scarce these days! </div>
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The website is at <a href="http://lphk.org/">http://lphk.org/</a> and there are many pictures of Maddy there. Go and check it out. They are working on becoming a recognised charitable organisation and so will be able to give receipts for tax-deductable donations soon. </div>
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Last month, when we were in Australia, we had Briella's dedication service at our home church. I did a little speech and thought I might as well share it here as well. </div>
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Dear Briella,</div>
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I am writing you this letter on the eve of your dedication.
You are loved by so many people, and most of all, by your family – your daddy,
your two big sisters and me. I always said that I wanted three girls, and God
saw fit to give me that desire of my heart. </div>
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It took me a while to decide whether or not to have that
third baby, afraid of repeating what was a traumatic pregnancy, afraid of
having to relive some of the hardest days of my life. When we finally decided
to have you, God gave us you quickly – maybe he knew I might change my mind. </div>
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At first, I was selfishly hoping and praying that you
wouldn’t have the dwarfism that affects your sister, but I knew deep down that
God knew the perfect child for our family, and that child was you. I didn’t
know it at the time, but God has already used you so much to heal me from the
negative experiences that I had previously. I don’t think that would have been
possible if you didn’t have dwarfism. </div>
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It took us a long time to decide what to call you. Your
daddy and I often have very different tastes! We both had lots of ideas but we
couldn’t find a name we both loved. In the end, your daddy said he wanted a
name with “El” in it so he could maybe call you “Ellie”. I wasn’t even sure if
“Briella” was a real name until I looked it up and found that it is a short
form of “Gabriella”, meaning “God is my strength” – perfect for you. </div>
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We knew your middle name, “Faith”, before you were born. You
see, Lana’s middle name is “Joy” – she was given my middle name, as our first
born daughter. We planned to use family names for all of our children, but when
we were expecting Maddy, “Hope” was something we had to cling to through some
very dark days so it was only natural to give her that name. Having started a
new tradition, there were only limited names to choose from and your daddy and
I (miraculously) agreed that we liked the name “Faith”. </div>
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Its interesting though, the bible says that “Faith is the
substance of things hoped for” – “hope” is something that is often tentative
and flickering, like a candle in a dark night, but “faith” has substance and a
basis for strong belief. With Lana, we had the joy of having an easy and
perfectly average baby. With Maddy, we had so many worries and fears that at
first, we had to choose to hope. That hope grew and grew as we saw her doing
things the doctors said she would never do, and as we grew in confidence in
parenting her. With you, we never had many of the same worries – we knew that
you would figure out how to use those fingers that do not bend. We knew you’d
walk and talk – maybe a bit slower than other babies, but in your own time
you’d get there. With you, we have faith. </div>
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We have many dreams for you. We hope that you will grow up
to be sweet, kind and generous. We hope you will be loyal towards your family
and friends, innovative, strong and positive. Most importantly, we hope that
you learn to love Jesus. Ultimately, this is your life to live. We will try to
give you the tools to equip you for whatever life throws at you, but you will
need to make these decisions for yourself. </div>
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Whatever comes your way in this life, we will always love
you and be there for you to support you however we can. We are family, and in
the words of Lilo and Stitch, “Ohana means family, and family means no one gets
left behind or forgotten”. </div>
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Love always, </div>
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Your mum. </div>
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Nicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10147429806244730166noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8207455552139284342.post-10176258826711615502014-05-05T14:09:00.000+08:002014-05-05T14:09:17.653+08:00Maddy's Spine, Briella's feet<div style="text-align: justify;">
So we're all still kicking, life is busy, I haven't forgotten about this blog. We have just returned from two weeks in Australia, which was amazing. We had perfect weather and had a great time with friends and family. While we were there, we had Briella's dedication service which was really nice but also highly unorganised. </div>
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Briella ended up being in the <a href="http://madeline-hope.blogspot.hk/2014/03/achilles-tenotomyspica-cast.html">hip spica</a> for a total of three weeks. That was an experience! Even being cast up to the waist wasn't enough to prevent Briella's stubborn feet from slipping back in the cast. She needed to be recast once. Her foot began slipping a second time but it wasn't bad enough to recast her again. After the spica was removed, she was meant to be either in leg casts, or little boots (like the ones with a bar that she had overnight after the surgery) for another couple of months, but our doctors realised that it was futile since her feet were slipping out almost immediately. Instead, we are back to taping and stretching. We have very frequent physio and orthopedic appointments which are focused on her stubborn little feet, but we have had ok results from the tenotomy, gaining around 20 degrees of movement in each foot. Her right foot is now quite acceptable, however her left foot (the more stubborn one) will likely need further work done on it. </div>
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While Briella's feet are taking up most of my time at the moment, my current main concern is Maddy's spine. We have been waiting since <a href="http://madeline-hope.blogspot.hk/2013/10/maddys-orthopedic-update.html">October</a> for a CT scan to give us more information about exactly what is going on with her spine, and in that time it seems as though her scoliosis has gotten worse. In addition, in the past few months, Maddy has been complaining from time to time of pain in her back. Being only three, it is hard to know exactly how bad the pain is and whether it is related to her scoliosis or not. After contacting our spinal ortho, he advised us to come in for an extra appointment. The doctor there told us "given the degree of Maddy's deformity, I'm sure she is in pain on a daily basis, however she probably has a pretty high pain tolerance as well". That's not a nice thought :( He said though that he thought Maddy's pain was coming from her hips rather than from her scoliosis, however the orthopedic doctors who look after Maddy's hips disagree - they think it is spine related. </div>
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We (ironically) received the appointment for the CT scan for while we were in Australia (the only two weeks out of the last year or so that we were out of Hong Kong)! Fortunately they were able to reschedule it without waiting for another six(!!) months and the new CT appointment will be on May 20. After this appointment, the doctors will be able to have a clearer picture of the exact condition of Maddy's spine, whether or not there is the much-debated hemivertebra, and whether we need to start thinking about surgery.Our follow up appointment is on May 26, so we will get the report from the CT scan then.</div>
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Please keep us in your thoughts throughout this month as we learn more about Maddy's spine and what the plan is for managing it. Ideally, it's best to delay any major spinal surgery for as long as possible, as surgery restricts the growth of the spine. We will see what happens... </div>
Nicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10147429806244730166noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8207455552139284342.post-33678436901139998082014-03-12T13:13:00.001+08:002014-03-12T13:13:43.754+08:00Achilles Tenotomy/Spica cast<br />
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This time last week, we were in hospital doing all the pre-op consultations for Briella's surgery last Thursday. It was a long day with lots of back and forth-ing. We saw a few orthos, as well as the anesthetist, the occupational therapist and the physio. We also had to get pre-op photos taken of Briella's feet. The plan was made to do the tenotomy with a local anesthetic as well as sedation, which would require an IV and also for Briella to fast from 3am until the procedure, which was scheduled at 10am.</div>
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With babies and surgery, I think that often the two hardest things are the fasting and the IVs, rather than the surgery itself. Babies can't go very long without milk, since their tummies are so small - and they don't understand why they are not being fed. That night, I attempted to wake Briella at 2:30am to feed her once more before she would have to fast, but she barely stirred. </div>
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As expected, Briella woke up starving hungry on Thursday morning and screamed for an hour before she fell asleep, exhausted. It was the first of at least 5 or 6 times for the next two days that she would scream herself to sleep :( I managed to take her to the hospital without waking her and keep her asleep until it was nearly time for the procedure. </div>
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The above picture is Briella in the smallest sized operating theatre gown that they had! I guess it would have fit an average 5 year old - it was double Briella's length! </div>
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As expected, they had great difficulty finding a vein for the IV and after four failed attempts, they decided to abandon it and to perform the procedure under a local anesthetic only. In retrospect, I wish I would have insisted on this in the first place. It may have spared Briella from the need to fast, and it would have spared her the pain of four failed IV insertions and the resulting bruises on her tiny hands. The things I will note down in case there is ever a "next time"!</div>
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The procedure itself went smoothly, and they sent her out in the above temporary casts on her feet. Casting the feet after a tenotomy is imperative. The feet need to heal with the ankles held in a 90 degree angle so that this new range of motion is maintained. The plan was to either have a) casts, b) AFOs that would be held together with a bar, or c) a hip to toe spica cast. These options were in order of preference. Most babies have casts after a tenotomy, however for Briella, with her tiny feet and very short legs, it was questionable as to whether these would stay on.<br />
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On Friday, we came back to the hospital and spent over an hour trying to modify the AFOs in such a way that they would stay on her feet without slipping. Each effort required stretching and manipulating Briella's ankles which were still tender from the surgery the previous day. After exhausting all options, her ortho asked me what I thought about the spica cast. I told him that we better do whatever will give us the best results from the surgery - and while I wanted to avoid the spica cast, I know we do what we have to do.</div>
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Putting the spica cast was pretty traumatic for poor Briella - it took about an hour of stretching and holding her little feet to get them into the best position. As the cast goes over both the knee and the hip, it is far less likely to slip and therefore will hold her feet in a better position as it heals.</div>
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The first night was pretty rough, with Briella being very uncomfortable and waking every hour or two all night long. She has slowly adapted, however, and is sleeping much better now. She still is far more fussy than usual and I think it is hard for her to get rid of her gas. Before, we would bend her at the hips and rub her tummy, and that would most effectively get it out. Now, her hips are locked in a mostly straight position so she can't bend.</div>
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The cast will stay on for about four weeks, at which time we will have to remove it as we are travelling back to Australia for easter. It's not recommended to fly in a spica cast as flying causes you to retain a bit of fluid and swell. Hopefully we will have good results and by that time, the AFOs will stay on Briella's feet better. She will need some casts/splints/AFOs for the next four months, full time, and after that she will need to continue to use them for nights and naps. </div>
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Unlike Maddy, Briella has been "blessed" with the typical diastrophic clubbed feet. </div>
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Currently, the most effective treatment for clubbed feet is the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ponseti_method">Ponseti method</a>, which involves casting and re-casting the feet weekly to stretch the tendons and ligaments into their correct positions. Diastrophic clubbed feet are not typical, but this kind of casting can help. There are a few problems with casting diastrophic feet, however - the feet and legs are tiny tiny tiny, and most diastrophic clubbed feet have very tight Achilles tendons causing the feet to point downwards. These issues combined can make it very difficult for casts to stay on the feet. </div>
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For the past three months, we have been using an adapted method which involves using physio tape to pull the feet into a better position, along with stretching the feet multiple times a day. Using this method, we have seen some improvement, however it is not reasonable to expect that this method could produce the same results as serial casting. Our ortho thinks we have achieved close to the limit of success with this method alone. </div>
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Many kids with tight Achilles tendons (including kids with diastrophic dysplasia) can benefit from a tenotomy. This procedure involves snipping a bit of the Achilles tendon in order to loosen it. We've known for a while that this would be a necessity for Briella - and at our appointment with our orthopedic surgeon yesterday, he scheduled it for next Thursday, March 6th. </div>
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As far as procedures/surgeries go, this is very minor (I'm not even sure whether to call it a "surgery" as she will not need a general anesthetic even - she will have sedation and a local anesthetic). There is even a youtube video of the procedure which I will not link here. After the procedure, the casts will be better able to stay on Briella's feet as the feet will be able to be "flat" rather than pointing down. </div>
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While this will hopefully be great for Briella's feet (and therefore her future ability to walk), it will provide some logistical issues as currently, I mainly carry her in an infant carrier which probably is not suitable for use with casts. We might have to start using a stroller more, which provides other logistical issues - but such is life in Hong Kong! </div>
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Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers over the next week or two as we prepare for the procedure. Hopefully we will have great success, and the casts will now be able to stay on Briella's little legs. It shouldn't be terribly painful or uncomfortable for Briella, however she might not like the idea of having the casts!</div>
Nicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10147429806244730166noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8207455552139284342.post-73005676392948797042014-02-08T12:53:00.000+08:002014-02-08T12:53:00.330+08:00Updated "Medical Story" page<div style="text-align: justify;">
It has been a long time since I updated the "Maddy's Story" page on this site - last update was in May 2012 before Maddy's cleft repair! At the time, she'd only recently begun to walk, and I was stressing over her speech issues. We still weren't even sure whether or not we would have another child. It definitely was way past time for an update!</div>
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So if you'd like to hear our new, much brighter "medical story", go and check it out <a href="http://madeline-hope.blogspot.hk/p/maddy-story.html">here</a>. </div>
Nicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10147429806244730166noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8207455552139284342.post-74841141245378759922014-02-04T16:26:00.000+08:002014-02-04T16:26:09.035+08:00Faith, Hope and Joy<div style="text-align: justify;">
I started this blog, "<a href="http://madeline-hope.blogspot.hk/2010/02/holding-onto-hope.html">Holding onto Hope</a>", when I was in such a dark place - unsure of the future, unsure as to whether we'd be bringing a baby home from the hospital. When Maddy was born, we were still "holding onto hope" as we learned how diastrophic dysplasia would affect our lives. As Maddy has grown and blossomed into an amazing three year old who already has exceeded the doctor's expectations, we are no longer in that dark place any more. "Hope" isn't something that we have to search for and cling to so strongly any more. Hope is all around us. </div>
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When Lana, my oldest, was born, we decided we'd give our kids first names that we liked, and "sentimental" middle names. We were tossing up between passing on "Joy" (my middle name), or "Anne" (my mother is Dianne and Bernard's grandmother is Anna). We chose "Joy" mainly because it sounded better with "Lana". </div>
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We had planned to continue this with Maddy, using family names, but through the trauma of the pregnancy, "hope" was something that was so important to us. It was only natural that she would become "Madeline Hope" - breaking our tradition, but yet starting a different one.</div>
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With Briella, "Faith" was the most natural choice. In fact we chose it before we were even pregnant with her. The bible says that "Faith is the confidence that what we hope for will actually happen" (Hebrews 11:1) and this suits our experience with Briella so much. Our hope with Maddy was so vulnerable - the odds seemed against us all the way. With Briella, our faith is confident - we have walked this road before and know that it goes somewhere good! </div>
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For a while now, I've felt that the title "Holding onto Hope" didn't really fit where we are at this stage of our lives, however I haven't been blogging as much and haven't been bothered to change it. And then there was the question of what to change it to? </div>
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"Faith, Hope and Joy" reflects our family so much better, where we are at today. We aren't in that dark place any more. We are in a place of joy and confidence in the future. We still have concerns and worries, but far less than three or four years ago. I still plan to use this web address rather than moving the entire blog over to a new address, and I'll continue to post both medical updates for Madeline and Briella, and about how dwarfism affects our lives. </div>
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So welcome to "Faith, Hope and Joy"!! </div>
Nicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10147429806244730166noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8207455552139284342.post-22794371997579267682014-01-30T11:44:00.002+08:002014-01-30T11:44:48.233+08:00Public services for children with disabilities in Hong Kong<div style="text-align: justify;">
Yesterday, I got an email from a friend of a friend whose son has just been diagnosed with cerebral palsy. Her main question was how to access the public services here. </div>
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Now my main experience has been with the preschool age and so that is all that I really know about. I thought I'd write out my experience here so that it might help other parents of preschool children newly diagnosed with a disability here in Hong Kong. </div>
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In Hong Kong, there are two very separate systems in the medical world - public and private. In the private system, things are very expensive but move along very quickly. In the public system, there are occasionally long waits for a particular service, but on the other side it is virtually free. In addition, many of the highly qualified specialists are in the public hospitals (which are university hospitals), so for us, we NEED to be in the public system (also we can't afford to do everything private as our insurance would reject just about everything as it is a congenital condition).</div>
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So if a parent here suspects that their child has special needs, what should they do? (for me, this step was different as my girls were diagnosed in utero and were "born into" the system pretty much!) - the best way into the public system for kids with developmental delays is through the <a href="http://www.fhs.gov.hk/english/centre_det/maternal/maternal.html">MCHC</a>. These clinics conduct developmental checks and can refer you to a specialist if delays are found. Often the specialist developmental checks are conducted at <a href="http://dkch.org/">Duchess of Kent Children's hospital</a>. If tests are to be run to confirm a diagnosis, sometimes it is better to see a private doctor for these tests if finances allow, so that a diagnosis can be made quickly. </div>
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(Note: I've also found the <a href="http://www.dhcas.gov.hk/eindex.html">Child Assessment Service</a> online which may be helpful - they take referrals from medical practitioners and they have a team of therapists, medical social workers etc. I'm sure this would be another way into the system, however I have no experience with them, and they appear to only be on the Kowloon side of Hong Kong). </div>
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Once a disability is confirmed, a doctor at a public hospital can refer the child to the relevant therapies in a public hospital. The most common are physiotherapy (for gross motor skills) and occupational therapy (for fine motor skills and also oromotor training). In general, children here aren't referred to speech therapists in public hospitals here until they are closer to age 18-24 months. It is important to obtain these referrals early as the waiting times are long, and in addition if the child is put on the waiting list for other special services, they are ineligible to apply for therapy services in the hosptials - however if they are receiving therapy in the hospitals, they are eligible to continue to do so until a place is available in a special needs preschool placement. </div>
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After public therapy is arranged, the next important step is to ensure that the doctor provides a referral to the medical social worker at the hospital. The social worker will be able to help you with two things - firstly, the application to government subsidised <a href="http://www.swd.gov.hk/en/index/site_pubsvc/page_rehab/sub_listofserv/id_serpresch/">preschool rehabilitation services</a> and secondly, the application for the <a href="http://www.swd.gov.hk/en/index/site_pubsvc/page_socsecu/sub_ssallowance/">disability allowance</a>. </div>
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The <a href="http://www.swd.gov.hk/en/index/site_pubsvc/page_rehab/sub_listofserv/id_serpresch/">preschool rehabilitation services</a> are available to any child who needs two or more kinds of therapy. In some cases, I know of children who could have benefited from the services, however they did not apply until it was too late. There are multiple options that a parent needs to look into, including integrated kindergartens, residential care and early education training centres. More information is provided on the link above. Not every child will be eligible for every kind of service, and the medical social worker will help you to figure out what is best for your child. Of all the options, ONLY the <a href="http://www.swd.gov.hk/en/index/site_pubsvc/page_rehab/sub_listofserv/id_earlyeduca/">early education training centre</a> is available in English, and within that category, there are only two options: <a href="http://www.watchdog.org.hk/">Watchdog</a> or <a href="http://cdchk.org/">CDC</a>. Watchdog is much cheaper than CDC, but has a longer waiting list. If you choose Watchdog, be sure that the medical social worker ONLY puts down Watchdog on the form, otherwise you almost definitely will get into CDC first (even if it is your second preference) and won't have the option of going to Watchdog at all. Both Watchdog and CDC have private programs that you can enter while you are on the waitlist for the government subsidised program if that is important to you. You can do this in addition to, or instead of, public therapy that is provided through the hospitals. </div>
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The <a href="http://www.swd.gov.hk/en/index/site_pubsvc/page_socsecu/sub_ssallowance/">disability allowance</a> provided by the Hong Kong government is not highly significant (I believe it's around $1500 a month for regular disability allowance, or $3000 a month for "higher" disability allowance). It also provides a significant tax-break by claiming a "disabled dependent allowance". The value of this tax-break could be up to $22,400 per year, depending on your income. And let's face it, having a child with a disability is expensive so if we are eligible for a little assistance, every bit can help.</div>
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Another thing you may be interested in applying for is the <a href="http://www.lwb.gov.hk/eng/forms/">disability card</a>. Any doctor, public or private, should be able to assist you with this application, AFTER you have either received a disability allowance, or you are on the waiting list for the preschool rehabilitation services. Maddy has one, although to be honest we haven't used it much yet. The main thing we have used it for is to flash it at bus drivers who ask us to fold Maddy's stroller - it is much more convenient if we can park it in the wheelchair area of the bus, and I feel it is safer for her as well. </div>
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Finally, one thing I have not yet done, but will definitely look into if we ever get a car is to apply for a disabled person's parking permit, or parking certificate for drivers who carry people with mobility disabilities. I'm not sure what the difference is, or exactly how they work (there are some disabled parking spots available around the city, as well as free metered parking and cheaper parking elsewhere), but the forms are available from the <a href="http://www.td.gov.hk/en/public_forms/td_forms/service_for_the_disabled/index.html">transport department</a>.</div>
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So in summary: if a child in Hong Kong is suspected to have a disability, the first step would be to look for a diagnosis either within or outside of the public health system. Secondly, get a developmental check up by the MCHC (or maybe CAS?) who hopefully will refer you to a specialist. From that specialist, get referrals to public therapy services, if you want that. After that, get a referral to the medical social worker who can assist you with applying for rehabilitation services and the disability allowance. The disability card and parking permit are "optional extras" but could be hugely beneficial if you have a heavy toddler with mobility issues. </div>
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Knowing what you are meant to do can help to speed things up - for example, it wasn't until Maddy was seven months old that she was put on the waiting list for the early education training centre, and it took multiple appointments with the social worker to figure it out. With Briella, I knew about the long wait and insisted on putting her on the waiting list as soon as I met with the social worker. She was added to the list when she was weeks old and likely will be able to access these services for a full year more than Maddy as a result. </div>
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I can't believe it has been five weeks since I last updated! If I could summarise the last five weeks, it has been extremely busy - but wonderful. </div>
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Having Briella has been my easiest "newborn" period in many ways. When Lana was three days old, I came down with <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bell%27s_palsy">Bell's Palsy</a> which lasted for the next 2-3 months and was very very difficult for me. I joked that I didn't have postnatal depression, but I did have "Bell's Palsy depression" and in retrospect, I probably did. With Maddy, we were dealing with NICU and in addition, were still learning so much about dwarfism and about her future that it was overwhelming at times. That time around, I had "NICU depression". With Briella, however, I was prepared for it to be rough at first - and my expectations were exceeded since she was home so quickly. Briella is my first child with whom I didn't spend much of the first few months in tears! And that feels really good...</div>
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We had a wonderful Christmas with my family - mostly just hung around at home and didn't do much of anything. Great company, good food - it was really nice. </div>
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As soon as January started, my schedule became nuts. In addition to all the doctors appointments, I'm in the middle of applying for Briella's Australian citizenship and passport, as well as my Hong Kong permanent residency. In terms of medical appointments, between the whole family, we have around twenty appointments for January - up to three a day. Many days this month, I have been at the hospital for over three hours. </div>
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Life with a newborn is always exhausting - night feedings are not easy on anyone. Although Briella is my third baby, she's only my second newborn, since Maddy was discharged already sleeping through the night. I'd forgotten how rough it can be! In addition, I think Briella has a bit of mild reflux and many days goes through periods of time where it is extremely hard to settle her. </div>
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If you have just one baby, you can sleep all day if you want - or at least get a good sleep in a few times a week. With three, that is much harder. With three and a hectic schedule, it is near impossible. We are surviving though, even if I'm somewhat delirious at times. </div>
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In terms of what is happening medically with Briella, we have seen many doctors and they are FAR more relaxed in general than they were with Maddy. Her breathing is stable, her feeding is improving, she's growing and getting stronger. With Maddy, there was a great deal of concern about flying. With Briella, we have already been cleared to fly and we are planning to go back at Easter. The doctors will see how she is closer to that date and decide whether or not we should prepare supplemental oxygen for the flight, but either way she is safe to fly. </div>
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Many of our appointments with Briella currently are focused on treating her clubbed feet. Typical treatment involves putting both feet into casts which go up to the thigh - however since Briella's legs are so tiny, the casts will likely fall off quickly. Instead, we have been using physio tape to stretch her feet into a better position. While this is not as effective as casting, it will at least stay on her feet. In addition, I need to do daily stretching exercises on her feet. </div>
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In the next few months, we will continue to see how her feet go with this course of treatment. As she grows, we may start casting her feet instead. In addition to casting, she may need to have a procedure to lengthen the archilles tendon which is extremely tight. </div>
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I've started so many blog-posts in my head but never get a chance to sit down and put them all into a coherent post. I'm sure our lives will continue to be slightly crazy over the next few months but I hope to update when I can. </div>
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It has been a wonderful week at home since my last post. Briella is a sweet little newborn who mostly sleeps very well - although she can be a lazy eater. She's very easy going, and we've been out and about quite a bit. She snuggles into the <a href="http://www.bobafamily.com/store/baby-wrap/">Boba Wrap carrier </a>(which I LOVE!) and sleeps almost the entire time we are out of the house. Now that she is three weeks old, she is more alert and enjoys observing whatever is going on around her. </div>
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Last Friday, December 13, we went back up to the hospital and Briella was formally discharged. We were given not one or two follow up appointments, but TEN of them. Such is life with a newborn with special needs! Because of the holidays, they don't start until after the new year - but January is going to be a very busy month for us!</div>
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On Friday, we saw our orthopedic doctor as well. The most immediate concern is Briella's feet. We plan to do some taping to see if that will help, and in the new year we will probably start casting. Both of these involve manipulating the feet into a more "neutral" position, and then using tape or casts to hold the feet in that position. This will be repeated weekly or so, and hopefully over the long term, the position of the feet will improve. </div>
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When Maddy was discharged from NICU, it was also early December. This is the peak season for colds and flus, and as such, the doctors recommended that she have the vaccine for <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_respiratory_syncytial_virus">RSV</a>. RSV is the main cause of pneumonia and bronchiolitis in young children, and children who are at risk (such as those who like Maddy and Briella have airway malformations and restricted lung capacities) are advised to have the vaccine. It's not a true vaccine which causes the body to create antibodies, but rather an infusion of the antibodies themselves. Every season, a child needs five shots and when Maddy was born, these shots would have been paid out of pocket - for a total cost of HKD$40,000!! (about $5,000USD/AUD). At the time, we couldn't justify the expense. Fortunately now, that cost is covered by the public health system here in Hong Kong (only for at-risk children) and so Briella will be able to get those injections for free and we can sleep a bit easier this flu-season! (particularly since <a href="http://madeline-hope.blogspot.hk/2013/02/the-past-three-months.html">this time last year</a>, Maddy was hospitalised with bronchiolitis). </div>
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Friday was a busy day - in addition to our time in the hospital, and also attending Lana's school Christmas concert, my parents and sister arrived in Hong Kong to spend the holidays with us! It has been wonderful seeing them again, and for them to meet little Briella. Every day I am amazed at how blessed we are that she is healthy and strong and HOME! </div>
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Last week, we took Briella to have some professional photos done. I'll finish up this post with some of my favourites :) </div>
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Nicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10147429806244730166noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8207455552139284342.post-8480480930718072202013-12-10T22:44:00.003+08:002013-12-10T22:44:51.258+08:00Two weeks old<div style="text-align: justify;">
Today, Briella is two weeks old. It is crazy how fast the time has gone - but in other ways it seems as though she's been with us for far longer than that! We are loving having her at home, but it is exhausting! She is still learning to eat and so feeding her takes a lot of time and energy. On top of that, I'm pumping breastmilk for her as well, which also is demanding. I'd forgotten how much work a newborn is - I haven't had a newborn at home for over five years, since Maddy came home much later. It is all worth it though! </div>
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Yesterday, we went up to the hospital again - I thought it was to be discharged, and for some reason I was expecting to get up there, talk to the doctors straight away and then leave within a couple of hours. It wasn't anything like that though! I arrived at 10am and was promptly told to wait outside of the ward since it was not visiting hours. The nurse told me that she would call me by 3pm to let me know "if Briella had to stay, if she was given more home leave, or if she would be discharged". Not what I was expecting! I posted on Facebook and had a few comments about how the nurse sounded nasty, and in some ways it seems that way - but it is just the difference in culture here. Sometimes it sucks - but she wasn't being cruel or rude, just following protocol and letting me know all possible outcomes. Regardless, it was very impersonal and lacked any kind of warmth that you might get in a Western hospital. </div>
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To cut a long story short, after a few hours, Briella was given more home leave and so we have to go back up to the hospital on Friday to repeat the above experience. At least this time I know what to expect! I think if all is well, she will be discharged then. She is doing very well at home, but she is still not yet back up to her birth weight and I think that is the main thing they want to check again. The feeding issues can make it harder for little ones to put on weight - so we need to keep making sure she's drinking enough every day!</div>
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In other "news", Briella's ear started "bubbling" yesterday. Most kids with diastrophic dysplasia develop cysts on their ears within the first few weeks after birth. They stay swollen for a few weeks and then harden, forming "cauliflower ears". The cysts can be treated by a variety of different methods, including compression or draining the fluid. When Maddy was in NICU, hers were treated primarily through compression - you can see some of her head bands in <a href="http://madeline-hope.blogspot.hk/2010/08/hands-and-feet.html">this post here</a>. For Maddy, it kind of worked - her cysts are mostly flat, but they do have a bit of scar tissue in both ears (you can see the end "result" in the header of this blog). For Maddy, however, the compression bandages ended up forming a pressure sore behind one of her ears, and also started misshaping her head, so the doctors decided to stop. We'll see what happens with Briella's ears. She was born with perfect ears so hopefully they don't scar too badly! </div>
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Maddy's NICU file is kept on Briella's bed - the doctors and nurses had to review her case in preparation for Briella's birth. Briella owes Maddy big time - I'm positive this is the reason why Briella had a far "easier" time in NICU than Maddy did. </div>
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This is what happens when you have older sisters ;)</div>
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